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Abuela's Letter
Abuela’s Letter is a beautiful story that addresses loss and grief within a Latin family where a young girl is challenged by the death of her grandmother and discovers letter-writing as a way to cope and connect with her loved one's passing. Alma’s favorite days are when her big family gathers at Abuela’s house. Tíos take siestas while tías tell their stories, and primos play dominoes while Abuela stirs the frijoles. Always at the center is the love of Abuela! Alma’s beloved grandmother and her number one fan! When Abuela dies, all of this is suddenly gone. Alma is filled with sadness and grief, until she finds a letter that Abuela left for her. Could Abuela’s words be what fills her heart again with love and sweet memories? This thoughtful story captures the concept of “familismo” beautifully ― a Latin cultural value that involves dedication, commitment, and loyalty to family. Regularly spending time with one's immediate and extended family is part of familismo, as well as seeking the family's advice and support for important decisions and life transitions, such grief and loss. Includes a note to readers in English and Spanish with coping strategies essential to Latino and Hispanic families about grief and loss of a loved one, as well as additional ways to support children and honor the life and memory of beloved family members.
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32 pages, Hardcover
Expected publication October 15, 2024
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April 28, 2024
A touching and healing story with beautiful illustrations about grief and how Alma, a young girl who adored her grandmother, deals with her death with the support of her loving family. Highly recommended!
June 26, 2024
Abuela has a wonderful relationship with her family. When they come to see her, they always feel loved and valued. When Abuela passes away, her granddaughter feels her absence and struggles with the grief. Finding a letter that Abuela wrote for her, strengthens her and helps her to know that her Abuela lives on.
I loved the story line and the culture of family in this story about grief. It is for all families and the power of grandparents in the life of their grandchildren.
A special thank you to American Psychological Association | Magination Press and Netgalley for the ARC and the opportunity to post an honest review.
I loved the story line and the culture of family in this story about grief. It is for all families and the power of grandparents in the life of their grandchildren.
A special thank you to American Psychological Association | Magination Press and Netgalley for the ARC and the opportunity to post an honest review.
March 28, 2024
Abuela’s Letter is a poignant and heartwarming children’s book that delicately navigates the theme of loss and love.
Through the eyes of a young girl who adores her Abuela and her vibrant family, we witness the sadness that naturally accompanies her Abuela’s passing.
However, the story takes a beautiful turn as the girl receives an unexpected touching letter from her Abuela on her birthday, reminding her of the enduring power of love beyond life.
This book, although short and sweet, is a tender exploration of loss and love. Extremely relatable.
I highly recommend it for families seeking a gentle introduction to discussing the loss of a loved one with children.
Thankyou to author Debbie Zapata, Magination Press and Netgalley for the opportunity to read this book.
Charlene 📚🌸🤗 @lastnownext
Through the eyes of a young girl who adores her Abuela and her vibrant family, we witness the sadness that naturally accompanies her Abuela’s passing.
However, the story takes a beautiful turn as the girl receives an unexpected touching letter from her Abuela on her birthday, reminding her of the enduring power of love beyond life.
This book, although short and sweet, is a tender exploration of loss and love. Extremely relatable.
I highly recommend it for families seeking a gentle introduction to discussing the loss of a loved one with children.
Thankyou to author Debbie Zapata, Magination Press and Netgalley for the opportunity to read this book.
Charlene 📚🌸🤗 @lastnownext
June 15, 2024
I received this book for free. This does not impact my review in any shape or form.
Abuela’s Letter, by Debbie Zapata and illustrated by Alejandra Ruiz, is a touching story about a family learning to honor their loved ones, regardless of the pain and sorrow. Alma enjoys spending time with her grandmother, always in the company of family and love and laughter. When she passes away, Alma remembers the joy and laughter that her grandmother brought, however difficult it may be. It isn't long before she finds a letter from her grandmother, and realizes that she will always be by Alma’s side, even if she’s no longer there.
The illustrations are incredibly comforting. The fact that Zapata and Ruiz took the time to integrate Hispanic culture into the story shows how crucial it is for children to learn that grief is universal for everyone, even if it might look different from others' traditions. They pair well with Alma’s internal dialogue, and how, despite the smiles around her, nostalgia permeates her voice. And it’s not just her; it’s everyone. They’ve lost someone important, and though they try to keep on with their lives, it’s hard when the one person you can turn to is no longer there.
I also enjoyed the writing exercise in the end; more often than not I would have clients write letters to loved ones, deceased or otherwise, to get all the emotion built up inside them. How Alma’s grandmother writes her letter gives her the courage to continue living her life with her in her heart. Granted, not all the letters my clients write are that kind-hearted, but I enjoy them nonetheless.
Grief is complex. There’s a grief that you experience when you know you’re about to die, but you still choose to love life anyway. There’s a grief that comes when a loved one has been taken away all too soon, and all the precious moments you planned out for them dissipate before you. Children have trouble understanding and coping with grief, never mind adults. But that doesn’t mean they can’t learn. Children can grasp that their loved ones are gone, and even though they need support, they can get through it. It’s like how Alma’s grandmother trusted Alma enough to continue pushing forward.
Abuela’s Letter, by Debbie Zapata and illustrated by Alejandra Ruiz, is a touching story about a family learning to honor their loved ones, regardless of the pain and sorrow. Alma enjoys spending time with her grandmother, always in the company of family and love and laughter. When she passes away, Alma remembers the joy and laughter that her grandmother brought, however difficult it may be. It isn't long before she finds a letter from her grandmother, and realizes that she will always be by Alma’s side, even if she’s no longer there.
The illustrations are incredibly comforting. The fact that Zapata and Ruiz took the time to integrate Hispanic culture into the story shows how crucial it is for children to learn that grief is universal for everyone, even if it might look different from others' traditions. They pair well with Alma’s internal dialogue, and how, despite the smiles around her, nostalgia permeates her voice. And it’s not just her; it’s everyone. They’ve lost someone important, and though they try to keep on with their lives, it’s hard when the one person you can turn to is no longer there.
I also enjoyed the writing exercise in the end; more often than not I would have clients write letters to loved ones, deceased or otherwise, to get all the emotion built up inside them. How Alma’s grandmother writes her letter gives her the courage to continue living her life with her in her heart. Granted, not all the letters my clients write are that kind-hearted, but I enjoy them nonetheless.
Grief is complex. There’s a grief that you experience when you know you’re about to die, but you still choose to love life anyway. There’s a grief that comes when a loved one has been taken away all too soon, and all the precious moments you planned out for them dissipate before you. Children have trouble understanding and coping with grief, never mind adults. But that doesn’t mean they can’t learn. Children can grasp that their loved ones are gone, and even though they need support, they can get through it. It’s like how Alma’s grandmother trusted Alma enough to continue pushing forward.
April 8, 2024
An incredible, diverse story on loss, grief, & the hope for tomorrow. A house full of family & Abuela is Alma's biggest fan! But one day, the house of laughter grows quiet as Abuela becomes very sick & dies. Alma knows she lived a long, happy life but she's sad & struggles to play in her next basketball game. They win, but she doesn't feel like celebrating. This very realistic description of grief is concise & easy to understand for even the youngest of readers. The discussion with her and her Papa is beautiful and shows children that adults feel grief too. It's now Alma's birthday & she is missing her Abuela even more! She ends up finding a letter from her Abuela that she left before her death. The peace & closure she now feels is beautiful. The Reader's Note at the end of the story is a perfect addition for those who are experiencing grief & loss with a child. A beautiful must-read!
Thank you to NetGalley & Magination Press for a digital review copy in exchange for an honest review.
Thank you to NetGalley & Magination Press for a digital review copy in exchange for an honest review.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
May 21, 2024
ABUELA’S LETTER is a moving story about a girl and her special connection with her Abuela. When Abuela becomes ill and dies, the girl copes with the complicated feelings of grief. She finds a letter from her Abuela and remembers Abuela will always be with her – what an important message to share with readers! Zapata tells the story from a child’s perspective using language they can understand, while Ruíz’s illustrations capture the family’s love and immerse readers in all the emotions. Young readers who are dealing with grief will find solace and a guide for coping, while those who have not yet experienced it will have a helpful map for the future. All readers will appreciate the theme of family love and connection. Back matter offers in-depth information for adults looking to support kids. This book is a wonderful tool for educational and therapy settings as well as for at home. I highly recommend this tender and important story!
July 15, 2024
Every child who has loved and lost a special family member will relate to this picture book centered around the death of a grandma. Focusing on the importance of family and togetherness through good times and bad, the book gives a glimpse into Mexican food, traditions and culture.
Healing activities for caregivers and kids at the end of the book are a good tool to explore grief and treasure memories with loved ones.
Having years of experience as a counselor, author Debbie Zapata has written this picture book with sensitivity. The book acknowledges grief and slowly stirs mixed emotions in readers by comforting and empowering them.
Abuela's Letter is ideal for readers above five years.
Healing activities for caregivers and kids at the end of the book are a good tool to explore grief and treasure memories with loved ones.
Having years of experience as a counselor, author Debbie Zapata has written this picture book with sensitivity. The book acknowledges grief and slowly stirs mixed emotions in readers by comforting and empowering them.
Abuela's Letter is ideal for readers above five years.
May 29, 2024
What a beautiful story, I truly wish I could have had that special surprise letter from my own grandparents after they passed away. This story reinforces how love is so impactful in our lives, even after death. Debbie did a great job going through the emotions with the main character after her Abuela’s passing and showing how she can hold on to special memories and love in order to feel like the person she loves is never truly gone. The illustrations by Alejandra are so sweet, and the emotions are so well expressed - we feel like we are also in those family fiestas - surrounded by all tios, primos and yummy food!
March 9, 2024
In a family filled with tías, tíos, and primos, Alma’s abuela is her number one fan. But when an illness takes Abuela, Alma is left heartbroken. As Alma wrestles with the loss, her loving family finds ways to support her. But it’s when Alma discovers Abuela’s letter that she begins to understand that Abuela’s love will always fill her heart. This beautiful story of grief, acceptance, and healing will help children struggling with their own loss of a loved one. Back matter provides guidance to adult caregivers for offering support and comfort.
April 18, 2024
Abuela's Letter is a beautifully written introduction to loss and grief as seen through the eyes of Alma, a young girl from a Latinx family. Alma loves spending time with her Abuela but when she passes away she can't move through her pain. Life just isn't the same without her. But with the love and support of her family, and a very special birthday gift from her grandma, Alma learns that Abuela will always be with her. Filled with cultural references and rich backmatter, this story is such a valuable resource for all children navigating loss.
May 5, 2024
Told through the eyes of a young latin-American girl, this touching story explores loss, grief, and remembering the ones we love. The author tactfully describes the death of family member in a way that children will relate to. I particularly loved how the book described practical techniques that a grieving child can use to help them deal with their own loss.
Despite the subject matter, the illustrations are bright and eye catching. A beautiful garden spread pops off the page.
Highly recommend for any child and especially for those who are experiencing the loss of a loved one.
Despite the subject matter, the illustrations are bright and eye catching. A beautiful garden spread pops off the page.
Highly recommend for any child and especially for those who are experiencing the loss of a loved one.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
August 9, 2024
A bright and beautiful book about a little girl, Alma, who loses her beloved grandmother and eventually learns that, no matter what, her grandmother’s love will always be in her heart. Weaving in Spanish dialogue and some traditions from the author’s Mexican culture, the story shows the importance of family support after losing a loved one and models how this child navigates moving on after her devastating loss. The back matter offers an extensive note from a clinical psychologist explaining how caregivers and parents can best support their children in their time of grief.
March 7, 2024
"At my Abuela's house, family popped in and out."
Abuela is Alma's number one fan in a home filled with warmth and love, tios and tias. While Alma practices basketball, it's her Abuela who cheers her on. “¡Felicidades, mija!”
After an illness and goodbyes, Alma struggles with her grief. Still, through her supportive family and a discovery, she is able to understand that Abuela will always be part of her.
A touching, nuanced story about grief for young readers.
Abuela is Alma's number one fan in a home filled with warmth and love, tios and tias. While Alma practices basketball, it's her Abuela who cheers her on. “¡Felicidades, mija!”
After an illness and goodbyes, Alma struggles with her grief. Still, through her supportive family and a discovery, she is able to understand that Abuela will always be part of her.
A touching, nuanced story about grief for young readers.
March 17, 2024
Abuela's Letter
by Debbie Zapata
Death is part of all lives. Unfortunately students have to face it. This book is a good resource showing that our loved ones are still our support system even after death. The book shows that although we are sad we can remember our loved ones and find strength. This is a good resource for schools to help children through this difficult time. The book has ideas, and would make a good contextual resource for schools to help students.
by Debbie Zapata
Death is part of all lives. Unfortunately students have to face it. This book is a good resource showing that our loved ones are still our support system even after death. The book shows that although we are sad we can remember our loved ones and find strength. This is a good resource for schools to help children through this difficult time. The book has ideas, and would make a good contextual resource for schools to help students.
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April 20, 2024People process grief in many different ways, which is why I love books like this that help kids process a loss. Debbie Zapata's gentle text combines a little girl's grief over the loss of her abuela with Mexican traditions and Spanish words. I especially details how Papá cries, too, thwarting ideals of toxic masculinity. Meanwhile, Alejandra Ruiz's colorful illustrations portray a large, loving Mexican American family mourning the loss of their matriarch. An all around beautiful book.
July 30, 2024
This book approaches the difficult topic of losing a loved one and the grief that follows in such a hopeful and accessible way. Paired with bright, engaging illustrations, the story beautifully sprinkles in Spanish words and highlights Latin culture and traditions. Readers are also given tools to support and heal during times of loss in the back of the book. A wonderful choice for every bookshelf!
May 31, 2024
Beautiful illustrations match this beautifully told tale depicting a young girl mourning and dealing with the loss of her beloved abuela. The book includes excellent backmatter with healing activities and a guide. It's a very compassionate, realistic story sure to help children understand and cope with the complicated feelings associated with loss and grieving. Very well done.
July 10, 2024
Abuela’s Letter is a touching story about grief and loss. When a young girl loses her abuela we feel her sadness and see the affects it has on her emotionally. But when she discovers a letter from her Abuela, her healing process begins. Told through sweet illustrations and a relatable story for young children, Abuela’s Letter is a great addition to your bibliotherapy library.
July 13, 2024
Such a sweet story showing a child's journey through grief after her grandmother passes away. The bright illustrations are adorable. I enjoyed the representation of the Hispanic culture and the depiction of the loving family. This is a great way to open conversations with children about how to process the loss of loved ones.
July 20, 2024
Beautiful picture book about family, loss, grief -- and the discovery that those we love and miss can still be with us in our heart. The story, with its warm and charming illustrations of family life, is perfect for kids experiencing loss, and the reader's note in the back is perfect for adults trying to support those kids.
March 7, 2024
Hope. This book shows with love, comes loss. But in love, we carry someone's love with us everywhere we go. Someone's love and memory will stay alive within us, and we can share their love in many different ways.
Thank you NetGalley for a review copy.
Thank you NetGalley for a review copy.
March 17, 2024
I absolutely love this story! The loss of a family member is hard for us all to handle, but this sweet story shows ways for children to manage their feelings. Beautifully illustrations compliment the well-written text. Just love it.
July 19, 2024
Loved this story about a child navigating the loss of her Abuela. The little girl finds strength and hope in the letter that her grandma leaves for her. It's a great book for children to process grief and find the light of their ancestors in the things they do to move forward.
July 17, 2024
What a touching story of intergenerational/family love!
July 4, 2024
I voluntarily read and reviewed an advance copy of this book provided by the publisher, American Psychological Association, via NetGalley. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
Tears in my eyes after finishing this story. Zapata offers readers a look at a multi-generational family with their Abuela at the center. We see the story from Alma's perspective. She shares how much the family does together and how much joy and love envelop her. When her Abuela dies, she is deep in sorrow and not sure how to find joy again. Readers take this journey with her as she rereads letters her Abuela sent her; finds others who encourage her to continue her activities, and gets a surprise last letter from her. We see Alma write her own letter to Abuela sharing her emotions and life - a healing step that works for her.
A sensitive and supportive portrayal of the grief process. Informative text included at the end in both Spanish and English to help families at tender times after loss.
Tears in my eyes after finishing this story. Zapata offers readers a look at a multi-generational family with their Abuela at the center. We see the story from Alma's perspective. She shares how much the family does together and how much joy and love envelop her. When her Abuela dies, she is deep in sorrow and not sure how to find joy again. Readers take this journey with her as she rereads letters her Abuela sent her; finds others who encourage her to continue her activities, and gets a surprise last letter from her. We see Alma write her own letter to Abuela sharing her emotions and life - a healing step that works for her.
A sensitive and supportive portrayal of the grief process. Informative text included at the end in both Spanish and English to help families at tender times after loss.
July 22, 2024
A beautiful, poignant story about family love and loss. Debbie Zapata tells a lovely, uplifting, heartfelt story of "familiso"---Latina child, her close bond with her grandmother and the cherished letters between them that keep them close. Backmatter includes bi-lingual resources for children dealing with a death in the family, including a template for writing a healing letter to a loved one who has passed. A wonderful addition to a SEL picture book collection that honors the grieving process.
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