This was good! I think I was hoping to get a bit more out of it in the sense of some of this being eye-opening or surprising, and I can't say that wasThis was good! I think I was hoping to get a bit more out of it in the sense of some of this being eye-opening or surprising, and I can't say that was the case, but it made me appreciate that maybe I'm actually pretty good at this friendship thing. There was still a lot of good reframing and good advice in here, even as someone who maybe didn't need as much help as she thought she might've....more
Given that this is an obvious Fleetwood Mac tribute, I think I expected the emotional stakes to be higher than they were. (view spoiler)[Fleetwood MacGiven that this is an obvious Fleetwood Mac tribute, I think I expected the emotional stakes to be higher than they were. (view spoiler)[Fleetwood Mac were fucking each other like crazy and the two main characters in this don't even hook up? They just.... theoretically love each other from afar and don't even really make any dumb mistakes about it? Like c'monnnnnn. Stevie Nicks and Mick Fleetwood literally did have an affair. (hide spoiler)] It was entertaining enough, but it just felt like the emotional payoff wasn't totally there. The format wasn't my favorite, though I do think it will make a good TV show for that reason. Looking forward to watching the series....more
I read this out of sheer curiosity given that she's so popular and WOW. The writing was bad, the main character called herself a whore (just for... leI read this out of sheer curiosity given that she's so popular and WOW. The writing was bad, the main character called herself a whore (just for... letting a man into her apartment...), the relationships were wildly toxic, and the plot "twists" were all immensely predictable. I save one-star ratings for things I don't finish because hell, I've never written a novel so I don't feel especially authorized to be overly mean to people who've done something I haven't, and if nothing else this was certainly page-turning fluff, but... whew boy. If this is what women are reading these days, I'm genuinely concerned....more
A sort of hybrid of self-help and memoir. Zhu is a beautiful writer, and I appreciate how much they managed to weave into this in an artful and thoughA sort of hybrid of self-help and memoir. Zhu is a beautiful writer, and I appreciate how much they managed to weave into this in an artful and thoughtful way. Something I will definitely revisit parts of....more