Cassie Dandridge Selleck

“But Little Grandmother did not keep in touch with her namesake, my mother, Margaret Morris. News about Will Morris's younger daughter reached the "white" side through Mamie. They knew where she was, what she was doing, and who she was doing it with. Most important, they knew she had chosen to stay negro.

It is still a matter of speculation as to why my mother's father or one of her much older brothers or her sister did not keep in touch with her and her younger brother. Over the years, Aunt Mamie and my mother's various guardians supplied different explanations. The times were hard. They were bad for mulattoes and worse for "real" Negroes. There was little money around. Her father drank, drifted and could not keep jobs. Her teenage siblings could barely keep jobs ...... She was too dark, revealing both the Negro and swarthy Italian strains of her ancestry. Her color would give them away in their new white settings.

All of these reasons were plausible. None of them sufficed. None could take away the pain, the anger, the isolation, the questions.”
― Shirlee Taylor Haizlip, Sweeter the Juice: A Family Memoir in Black and White

“We are all small-minded people, creeping about the earth grubbing for our own advantage and making the very mistakes for which we want to humiliate our neighbors.”
― Helen Simonson, Major Pettigrew's Last Stand

“It was an old story so rubbed with retelling that the edges were blurry.”
― Helen Simonson, Major Pettigrew's Last Stand

“It's so much easier to tell other people how to do their job than fix one's own shortcoming, isn't it?”
― Helen Simonson, Major Pettigrew's Last Stand